I think that they can't be bothered a they don't think our kids are worth teaching as their cognitive impairments mean they will never talk "normally". That may even be true, but my God the difference for my boy of having some speech as opposed to none is immense to his and our quality of life.
He was signed off by SALTs at 3 - "he will never talk, dear".
Here are the things he has asked me for so far this morning, and its only 1030. Yet the NHS and private SALTs would have left him screaming, tantrumming and non-verbal. Right into adulthood.
He may never rival Stephen Fry for eloquence and probably won't converse normally, and perhaps that's why the NHS deemed him not worth the S/lt therapy money. But he can get his needs met and communicate with other human beings using thousands of words: surely that is worth it?
Of course it is ABA which got him talking.
I really feel for you - this is nothing short of a national scandal. Have you thought of threatening the press: " Speech therapists giving up on autistic kids"
The threat alone might focus minds.
Daddy come downstairs
Mummy come downstairs
Watch film
Shrek
Peter Pan
Brown toast
Hot tea
Go toilet
I pad
Go outside
Shut door
Be careful (said to himself, balancing yoga ball on sofa)
Toastie
Watch film - Shrek 2