DS is 5 and he has a speech disorder (Developmental Verbal Dyspraxia), mild hypotonia and mild hypermobility. He has been under various speech therapy services since he was 2.5, and was diagnosed and seen a few times at the Nuffield speech unit in London. He went to a special speech and language unit in Nursery which helped a lot.
At school now in year 1, he has 45 minutes with a TA, twice a week, they do various games, she helps him with fine motor skills, and works of different sounds. On another two days, he has social group with other children at his school that have speech problems. So four days a week he gets help outside of the classroom.
He is doing really well at school, academically, in everything, maths, English, science, PE (OK). His reading is very good (he has just finished his first Flat Stanley book
). He has poor social skills and likes to play on his own, but otherwise has no behaviour issues.
The questions are:
- He has never had a Statutory Assessment, should I try and get one for him, or is there no point considering that he gets lots of help from the school;
- He has an IEP, but his teacher did not attend the last review meeting because she said that he is doing really well in class. Is that normal? I mean that a teacher doesn't attend an IEP review?
- Does he really have special educational needs considering that he is actually doing very well at school (comparing him with older brother and friends) he is probably in the top third of the class (that shows my understanding of the issue here...);
OK that's it. Hope I haven't put anyone off with the long post!