"Also, you have made my point beautifully. You have been told something by an SLT but you don't agree. Now I'm really not trying to be inflammatory, truly. But - how are you qualified to disagree?"
You are joking, right?
Nursing assistants and parents - not quite the same thing.
Let's have a think here: the OP's son has been diagnosed with high functioning autism but has the speech of a two year old.
That there says that there is an issue. If those facts are true, that is a disorder. You need no more information. The assumption that therapy is not clinically appropriate because it would not produce change is probably well founded, but the reason it is well-founded is not because there is definitive proof that a child with autism can't learn these skills, it is because:
a) we don't have resources to provide the intense therapy that might make a difference
b) we don't have a solid evidence base on which to base intervention decisions that do make a difference.
Sadly Jabiru, there is an element of charlatanism in our profession. I wish it weren't so, but it is. We routinely give advice with no solid evidence:
- use natural gesture
- don't provide corrective feedback, modelling is all that is necessary
- there is a confirmed developmental trajectory for language based on good evidence - erm, no. Most of our data is woefully out of date.
- there are "modules" in the brain that account for language disorder or a "chain of communication" that has been proven beyond doubt - there isn't.
As above, the Cochrane review stated that there is insufficient evidence of our effectiveness in many areas. Now this is a good enough (perhaps the best!) reason to not offer services, but it needs to be clear that the reason for not offering services is because SERVICES are ineffective, not because a CHILD has no hope of change/improvement.
How often do we say, "we're not offering therapy because our therapy hasn't been proven to be effective and there's just no evidence that what I can offer will make a change to your child" as opposed to "the evidence says that your child doesn't need intervention because it would not produce change".
There is, in real terms, a massive difference here. Telling parents that SLTs don't have evidence to offer appropriate interventions to produce change in certain populations would mean us taking on board our own failings. Saying that [all] intervention is inappropriate because change is impossible is like placing a life sentence on a family They have to live with this reality day in and day out. The worst thing you can ever do as a professional is take away someone's hope when you have no real reason for doing so. There is quite a lot of evidence that change IS possible, actually.
I will never forget the mother of a young man with aphasia who said to me, "they told me he would be a vegetable. They said there was no hope. I nearly died that day". This was about her son who, two years later, was speaking in simple sentences but communicating about all the things that mattered to him and living his life again. Who has the right to predict the future based on the shoddy evidence base we have? Why do we have to tell the truth in a way that protects our professional ego even when it is not the best or most helpful way to communicate with families?
I tar our whole profession with this brush. We can describe communication very, very well but in many areas we don't really know how best to develop it. Description isn't what most people need or want though, they want change in real terms. I agree we often can't provide this with resourcing etc but providing a "consultative model" that is ineffective and based on poor evidence and prejudice about what is and is not possible based on diagnostic labels is, to my mind, highly unethical.