There was an article in MIL's Good Housekeeping on a woman called Sandy Row, she adopted 4 children who each turned out to have SN.
I lurk quite a lot on this board and notice you all seem to bang your head against a brick wall trying to get help or assistance, this book is supposed to be good.
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Has anyone read it?