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dizzey · 08/02/2013 15:52

Just ploughing my way through the Children and Families Bill (I know I need to get out more!) OMG! Implications of this are huge but what a wasted opportunity. Was hoping that the powers that be might have listened when they did their consultation back when, but instead all we have ended up with is a proposed two tier system of provision. If your child has Special Educational Needs then the proposed integrated system incorporating health, social care and education sounds not too bad in theory. How we are going to get all the professionals together to discuss our children is beyond me though - in 12 years I don't think we have ever managed it with our son! Also, if it were to happen, they would be spending all their time in reviews rather than treating our children which makes little sense. If you have a child who is disabled but does not have SEN however, this integrated support plan is not available and once again parents will have to fight to get the services that their children deserve. As always, it will be our children that will suffer. The Government had a golden opportunity to create a cohesive, integrated system of care for our children but this has seriously been missed. If you aren't aware of the Bill, please have a look as very soon it will have a huge impact on YOU and your children. Anyone else have any thoughts about this?

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BrunoDitri · 09/02/2013 11:57

I am very pleased that our Government is set to amend the Children Act (1989) in order to protect the Human Right of a child to benefit from maintaining a meaningful relationship with both its parents, post separation/divorce.

This was an original intention of the Children Act, but has been misinterpreted by the judiciary (specifically by Lady Butler-Sloss).

I have e-campaigned vigorously over recent years for the acceptance of the principle that a child's paramount interests are served by the Courts giving due regard to maintaining its meaningful relationship with both its parents.

Sadly, to date, the judiciary has remained more focused upon the wishes and feelings of the so-called 'primary carer' (usually mum) and has relegated the importance of the involvement of the de-facto 'secondary carer' (usually dad). It has remained stubbornly wedded to the 1960's and 70's ideology that children need the nurturing of their mother and the financial support of their father: as we know, today's parenting is very different indeed!

There have been well-publicised cases in which the senior judiciary has recognised this shortcoming in the law, but has been either unable or unwilling to act.

Outspoken High Court Judge, Sir Paul Coleridge has spoken of being powerless to prevent good fathers being excluded from their children's lives.

In the reserved judgment of Re D (Children) [2010] EWCA Civ 50, the former President of the Family Division, Sir Nicholas Wall broadcast (and later reiterated in a Family Affairs interview) his carefully considered view that Relocation Law ? in the form of Payne v Payne ? ascribed too great a weight to the wishes of the primary carer and relegated the harm done to a child due to the loss of its meaningful relationship with the left-behind parent.

Regardless of his concerns, however, Wall applied the very legal principles of Payne v Payne which he had criticised! He was unwilling to go against a legal precedent which plainly failed to serve the best interests of the children in that case.

With the forthcoming amendment to the Children Act, the judiciary will now be legally obliged to give due and proper weight to maintaining meaningful relationships between children and both their parents.

It is very hard to see how the principles of Payne v Payne can now survive. Plainly, a child which has been removed thousands of miles from its home country cannot easily benefit from maintaining a meaningful relationship with the left-behind parent. I expect this beastly law to be consigned to the history books before too long. A law which effectively permits a mother to cut out ? like a cancer ? a father from the life of his child is utterly barbaric and has no place in 21st Century Britain.

Regards
Bruno D'Itri

2tirednot2fight · 09/02/2013 18:54

Bruno, I don't think I fully understand the link between your post and the SN board but in my experience where there is a child with a disability neither parent, regardless of gender, is afforded the same parental rights as parents of non disabled children.

inappropriatelyemployed · 09/02/2013 19:07

Yes he posted something similar on the other thread about the bill

inappropriatelyemployed · 09/02/2013 19:07

Fathers 4 Justice have invaded!

2tirednot2fight · 09/02/2013 19:20

Well if they want to fight for the rights of disabled children I for one wouldn't object but if that's not their aim, Gotham city surely beckons!

inappropriatelyemployed · 09/02/2013 19:23
Grin
2tirednot2fight · 09/02/2013 19:24

Maybe that's it, if we dress as superheroes and take direct action....

2tirednot2fight · 09/02/2013 19:27

No lycra for me though, not a good look!

inappropriatelyemployed · 09/02/2013 20:56

Chain ourselves to the LGO offices and Dept or education!

2tirednot2fight · 09/02/2013 21:31

Blooming hell you must have long arms that's a bit of distance to cover you will have to go as Mrs Tickle! And if you glimpse a certain minister at the department of education maybe Mr Grumpy will join in!!!

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