I was a bit interested by that zombie thread, so thought I'd ask a question slightly more specific to me (so self-centred!). With DD (3.5, severe speech delay, late to hit milestones, some 'interesting' characteristics) I pushed for six hours before they realised she was malpresented and stuck. By the time they yanked her out with the forceps after another forty minutes with the old ventouse, she had been sitting in meconium for a couple of hours, very low heart rate during each contraction, but apgar was 4 and then 9 at five minutes so not dreadful. She spent a day in SCBU, then three days in hospital on IV antibiotics. They did a fair old number of tests when she was born, said she was deprived of oxygen during the birth and said we probably wouldn't know if there was anything wrong with her unless she didn't hit her milestones (I was listening to the paed while being stitched up and off my head on drugs, so don't remember all that well). Anyway, we put this out of our minds until DD failed to talk. Now I find myself dwelling on it from time to time.
Is there a link between poor condition at birth and delays/ASD? What's your experience?