Pls help. I am in quite a dilemma regarding school. Dd goes to a good private school who are not letting ABA tutors in. I found another place which is quality wise not that good, are not that structured and hence are quite relaxed. They are happy to let my tutors in. I could never leave dd alone in the second nursery as she would just roam around. In the first place, there is organization which benefits them and hence they are refusing to be open to any new tutors coming in. I have always thought private for dd but increasingly, I realise private schools in my area may not be open to ABA or any sort of 1:1 TA pad by us. They see it as a hindrance.
At the same time, time is of the essence for dd to begin ABA shadow now as language wise she has picked up but lags behind in social skills. What will be the right thing to do! Pull her out of private and send her to second nursery with ABA tutor, or do both side by side?