I hope you don't mind me asking for some help here- DS has been invited to a joint party of three children from his nursery class (all turning 4), one of whom has SN. I don't know his particular diagnosis, but he is non-verbal and doesn't interact with the other children very much. As I don't know him or his family very well at all, I'm at a loss for birthday present ideas. He favours musical toys with flashing lights and buttons etc but I am obviously desperate not to offend. I'm giving the other two books and would do the same for him but again, am unsure what would be appropriate.
Any ideas? Just something useful like a t shirt or similar? I won't get the chance to speak to his mum, as he is only at nursery one day a week and it's the day before the party!
Obviously I do realise that all children, SN or otherwise, are different, and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach here. Just after some thoughts/ideas really.