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This is really sad..

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schoolsadness · 22/01/2013 21:57

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My ds also talked about harming himself when he was permanently excluded Sad

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Cornsyilk99 · 22/01/2013 22:09

Sad poor, poor boy

I'm surprised that schools are allowed to send children to be at home alone in that agitated state when there is no adult there to care for them.

lisad123everybodydancenow · 22/01/2013 23:24

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coff33pot · 23/01/2013 00:36

:( I have no words......

Toughasoldboots · 23/01/2013 00:55

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lougle · 23/01/2013 06:50

Where was his support? How can a 12 year old be left at home alone after a meltdown so severe that he's excluded, until 8pm?

Ineedmorepatience · 23/01/2013 08:50

Fgs! What on earth possessed so called proffessionals to just open the door and let him out.

Why didnt they try to help himShock

I have worked with very volatile, distressed children and I can honestly say I never saw one just booted out on the street.

Poor, poor childSad

flowwithit · 23/01/2013 09:23

I read this sad story in the news last night and was also very upset for him. He was crying out for help the school should never have let him go alone. To be so distressed and then on his own until 8pm is just unthinkable and totally beyond any comprehension. He must have felt completely abandoned. So very very sad

sweetteamum · 23/01/2013 09:37

Oh my......such a sad sad story :( What that poor lad must of been going through.

Why oh why was he left to go home alone.

moosemama · 23/01/2013 13:12

I was so upset when I read that news report this morning. Poor, poor boy, why the hell wasn't anybody doing something/anything to help him?

There had clearly been a long history of problems but little or nothing done to help. It says he improved while in the school's SEN unit, but it seems they school didn't see that as a clear indication that they needed to sort out some proper assessment and ongoing support.

I can't believe they sent him home unsupervised after what had happened at school. The fact that he went back to the school twice after they turfed him out shows he was desperate for their help ffs.

Heartbreaking. Sad

AnniDoesHaveDreams · 23/01/2013 13:58

My worse nightmare come to life! My DS is 12 and at Secondary and my biggest fear is what this poor vulnerable child (he was still a young child!Sad) went through may be in my future. My son was telling me wished he was dead at 8 and that was enough to put the fear of god into me.

I sincerely hope that the teachers at my DS school would have the good sense to tell me that they would not let him leave and insist that one of his parents collect him.

This child could not have been shouting louder for help and the school closed the door in his face and as far as I can see so did everyone else Sad.

lisad123everybodydancenow · 23/01/2013 17:05

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Badvoc · 23/01/2013 18:24

He was let down by everyone that should have been caring for him..his mother and the school.
Neither is going to come out of this tragic story well :(

moosemama · 23/01/2013 18:56

I don't think it was just the school either Lisa. It just seems like there was no-one there for him, as Badvoc said, he was let down by everyone. Sad

inappropriatelyemployed · 23/01/2013 18:58

Very sad. The story is in the Daily Mail so the chances of us having all the facts from this are very small.

A child has been failed. Who knows how far back it goes or for how long and by whom.

On a broader point, I would have thought, however, that, legally, once in school, a child is a schol's responsibility. If a child is on school premises, the child is under school's care and they have a duty of care. Letting a child walk off under their own steam is, potentially, a failure of that duty of care. Schools who deal with children with behavioural problem have a legal responsibility to have systems in place to protect against such obviously foreseeable risks as a child leaving the premises

I am not saying that is what happened here but as a matter of law, on a general level, you can't just let kids walk off.

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