Hello, we have just started the process of getting our son's statement. He will definitely get one but the issue is that we want ABA in it. He currently attends a specialist autism nursery and we have recently started an ABA program. Here are a few questions:
- How can we evidence that it is the ABA that makes a difference rather than the LA just saying that it is the specialist nursery that is helping him?
- Has anyone got a specialist school AND ABA? He will more than likely get a place in the specialist school next September but we are really unsure that it's the right thing for him BUT we are also terrified that mainstream wouldn't be right either! Is there anyway we could get the best of all worlds?
- Does anyone have dual school places or home educate part time and if so, how is it?
It is especially difficult as he is an August baby so will still be very little when he starts school, which brings me to question
- Has anyone held their DC back a year? Does this just mean they miss reception or can you permanently keep them back?
I realise I am asking a lot of questions here but just wanted to ask them all in one go as there may be quite a lot of overlap in the answers.
Lastly please bear in mind that the whole statement process is new to me so can you try and keep it simple as I've seen some other statement threads that seem quite technical. Also I'm still suffering with mumnesia/general stupidity from birth of DC4-I'm convinced that all her breastfeeding is somehow sucking my brain cells out!