I know alison.
Even if the LEA does manage to get them to take him I don't feel I can trust them to support him properly now, but he wants to go there so badly and I seriously doubt we'll get him to cooperate to attend anywhere else.
Dh and I have discussed it, it's not as simple as being just because his best friend is going there. There are 50 children from his school going there this year, 99.9% of whom have always been very supportive of him, even if not directly his friends. He knows about 50% of last year's intake from this school as well and the year after next ds2 will be going there with most of his year and again ds1 knows all of them. So that's a sizeable number of children who will be at that school who know ds1 and he knows them.
The school is academic, but has a lot of focus on science and ICT, which is where ds1's strengths and interests lie and whilst they are strict, the structured way they work is well suited to ds's needs.
One of their biggest arguments was that he would need 1:1 in literature, RE and history, but he has never had or needed 1:1. They are basing that on the bit where the statement says he may struggle with inference and sub-text - but he's predicted a high-5 SAT in literacy - with no 1:1 at all.
The other thing is that there is not one other school in the whole LEA area that would be any different. They are all academies of the same ilk, although this one is the highest performing, but there's very little between them.
I have been looking at the nearest LEA SS this morning and it just won't suit ds academically. Their y7 top set maths and literacy curriculums are way behind ds's current level and the school says 'moderate LDs and ASD' whereas ds has ASD but no LDs.
We did put down another LEA ms secondary as our second choice, but there is no way he's setting foot in that place. Should be easy to fight the LEA if they insist on naming it though, as if the first school can't take him based on his needs, neither can any other ms secondary - which would mean the out of area indie is their only option.
Whichever way you look at it there's going to be a big fight though.