I learnt today that my sister doesn't believe there is anything wrong with DD. (warning. this contains a lot of swearing)

[TaggieCampbellBlack]

I am so fucking angry.
Stupid bloody bitch in her fucking perfect world.
I only fucking hope her perfect children don't ever run into any difficulties or turn out to have any extra needs.
Does she think I want to have a child with aspergers?
Does she think I am making it up?
How many normal teenagers does she know? And how many teenagers with fucking aspergers does she know?
And who the fuck does she think she fucking is? Some fucking expert?
What the actual fuck?

It hurts because can you imagine the sort of 'person' who would fake it? The sort of person who would damage their own child by creating something. Along with the whole 'no such thing as Aspergers/ADHD etc it's all bad parenting' attitude. She thinks that is what I am.

Bitch.

Swearing helps my phone family think I'm making it up, despite them hardly ever seeing DS (I'm talking once a year or less and we all live very close to each other). DS's lovely dad phoned SS when I told him his son has AS, claimed I had munchaussen byproxi and was making it all up, he sees his son twice a month fgs yet he knows more than me... families are shit, that's why you make your own lovely little family to compensate for the shit one you were given.

Bloody hell Panda

Taggie re your last post, I doubt she's thought it through to that level. It's just a knee-jerk response to the shit in the DM and other lovely publications. And stupidity. and being a fuckstick of thick

That should say 'my whole family', no idea how I managed to type in phone.

Yeh wilson, his dad was already known to SS as me and DS had to move into a woman's refuge to get away from him so when he told them about DS's AS they phoned me and explained my ex's claim and that they knew he was a troublemaker, complimented me on the support i was offering ds and then asked if there was anything they could help with, like giving me support group info etc.

I love the way family suddenly become experts! "There's nothing wrong with him... He's just lazy", "oh he's just highly strung", and the old favorite (not from mine but I've seen it on this forum a lot) "oh he just needs a good hiding... That'll sort him out".
I can't really offer any advise. But just say swear away!
There's been thousands of pounds spent inorder for you to get a correct diagnosis, plus thousands of pounds in treatment and appointments. People who have studied years, and have researched and toiled to get where they are today, spent their own money to get qualified...... Then there's your sister

I think people like this are more to be pitied than censured tbh op.
Of course that doesn't stop you plotting her untimely demise
I am now on the B of Gov at my sons school.
The fucking cunt of an NQT who is now on maternity leave and who told me imperiously a year ago that the lowest ability sets were "where your ds belongs" is on my fucking list.
Oh yes.
I have a list.
I pity those on it tbh :)
I have a long memory and am amazingly unforgiving :)
Strange that since he left her class and got some, you know, decent teaching he has made staggering progress and is now at the top of the middle sets in each subject.....hmmm....