Hello
We're in the process of waiting for our referral to come through to c specialists re DS 3yrs 9 months. Its looking like he is on the ASD.
He is having settling in at a pre school at the moment: He appears to really really like it and I feel the structure and more caring nature will help him.
Thi is only his 2nd full session this am as I pulled him out of his other nursery as he's started wetting himself, pooing himself, and he was being bullied and being called poo baby etc. ( There's more but am too upset to repeat what has transpired)
The other nursery were never told as the referral only happened in the last few weeks and as we pulled him out he stayed at home a bit to work on his self esteem again)
The new nursery manager is really lovely and was really caring when I xplained about keeping an eye on him as he's been nervous about going to the toilet by himself - thankfully they don't as they have set times when they all go together as well as when they need to. It turns out that he was being picked on in the toilets, had his trousers pulled down and obviously laughed at when he pooed himself, the list is endless.
My question is do I tell the new pre school that he has a referral to see a developmental paediatrician?
Any thoughts would be helpful thank u