Hi all
Having a bit of a panic, hence posting at 4am...
I'm going through the statutory assessment procedure with my DS atm, he has just turned 5 and started school in September. He has been diagnosed with ASD by Daphne Keen, plus a severe language disorder by a well respected private SALT, plus sensory processing disorder by a well respected OT. It took about a year and cost thousands of pounds to get him assessed by these people, get their reports and apply for a statutory assessment on the back of them.
During the first few weeks of school DS had a lot of meltdowns and hit out a lot at other children and staff. This has now settled right down, however school think he needs 1-1 25 hours a week plus speech therapy. The Ed Psych went in to school on Monday, observed DS for less than an hour and spoke to the school and then phoned me this morning to discuss her findings.
The first thing she said was that from the reports she'd seen she was expecting a classically autistic child - none of the reports say that. She went on about how he didn't even stand out at first, how she can't believe he has a language disorder because she saw him process complex instructions and answer appropriately - I could go on but you ge the picture.
She asked what I wanted for him. I said 25 hours a week 1-1 and - here she drew a sharp breath and told me that just because he was having a statutory assessment doesn't mean he will get a statement.
The mainstream school he is at now is my closest school and it has an outstanding ofsted and has had the same head for yonks. The parents are very involved. DS's sister is in year 2 there, is very happy and as she and DS are close it makes him feel secure to know she is there. They play together at lunch time sometimes. Ed Psych wants me to move DS from this school where he is just starting to settle and send him to a shit school with an ASD unit attached. This school is consistently Grade 3, heads change every 6 months, it has a reputation for being rough - I do not want DS to go there. Ed Psych was going on about how wonderful it would be for him because the staff are all trained. I know where this is going - it would cost the LA nothing if he went there.
How influential is the Ed Psych when it comes to getting a statement? TBH, she didn't sound all that bright/experienced to me, eg she thought it was "amazing" that he carry on doing phonics at choosing time instead of play like the other children and said she's never known a child with ASD to do that? Letters and numbers are part of DS's obsessions and from what I've read this isn't exactly uncommon...