We had to sign a form that said:
I accept the amended proposed statement
I accept the amended proposed statement subject to some minor amendments (Please detail these below or attach a copy of the statement with the amendments written onto it)
I do not accept the amended proposed statement and wish to discuss it further with the named officer
We then had to name the school we wanted on the same form and sign it at the bottom.
We ticked and signed against the middle option and sent off the final 'weasel word amendments' as agreed with the SO over the phone. She then ignored my minor amendments. If the LA can do what they want and put what they want in even after we've signed it, it makes a mockery of the whole system and the form irrelevant/pointless. Not that that surprises me. 
Been stewing on it all night. The officer didn't make my minor weasel word changes that I detailed as 'minor amendments' and we had actually agreed she would over the phone - but she was happy to make two significant changes to the provision that the school wanted, which are contra-indicated in the SA reports/evidence, without sharing them with me until they had been included in the Final Statement and even then they weren't pointed out and had been slotted into the middle of points that I had already accepted, so weren't immediately obvious when skim reading.
I have realised this morning that the places she hasn't changed the weasel words are the places that the school wouldn't like it eg, it now says:
"ds needs additional time to finish assessments ....." whereas we had agreed "ds will be provided with additional time to finish assessments ...."
The school has a bee in it's bonnet about this one and there was a meeting at the end last year with the HT about it because I complained that he hadn't been getting it, as agreed with the EP. Last year's teachers wanted him to have the extra time and the SENCO/Head didn't. I was told they had agreed that it was necessary and he would get the time. The EP stated in her report that he has a significant weakness in his process speed (this has been formally tested and the results were included in SA) and therefore needs additional time for assessments and exams. Yet the SO obviously thinks she knows better. 
So far this year, ds has been kept in at breaktime to complete work they were using to assess where the pupils are after the holiday. When I raised it with his teacher, she stated that he had the same amount of time as everyone else and it was sufficient, I told her extra time was a requirement of his statement (which of course she hadn't seen) and now I find they haven't tied up the language the way I wanted anyay so it's not enforceable. His confidence has already taken a knock this year because of this.
"Longer pieces of writing can be completed using ICT" whereas what we agreed was "Longer pieces of writing will be completed using ICT".
"X is likely to struggle with less concrete/fact based aspects of the curriculum that require him to draw inferences from text or understand alternative perspectives and that he will require extra support with these elements of the curriculum. Whereas what we agreed was "X is likely to struggle ......... or understand alternative perspecitves. The school will provide him with extra support with these elements of the curriculum.
They ignored my request to clarify what organisational help ds would get in the morning meet and greet, when all it stated was the meet and greet was to help sort out any changes to the timetable/structure of the day and what was recommended was that they would help sort his bag, equipment homework etc for the day. I suggested
"The mentor will provide a 'meet and greet' in the morning in order to sort out any letters and/or homework, prepare and organise his equipment and discuss any changes to the timetable/structure of the day.
Instead they completely ignored my wording and yet allowed the school to add sentence to the same point about using a checklist at the end of the day - something that has been tried and failed several times, most recently by his autism teacher and which was detailed as a failure in the EP's SA report.
I have teeth ache from grinding my jaw all night. 