can I just scream

[devientenigma]

argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Stiff drink?

lol, we going out like??

have you seen all the crap about DD on FB??

makes me worry that her ADHD has something to with it.

Then with DH being took to hospital don't know when or if I will get DS to bed.

With the spooky on goings? Yeah seen that. Has anything happened since?

Will B go to bed if you pretend to?

no not the spooky stuff, crap at school lol

Oh no, missed that. What's happened?

K having friends doesn't make me any different of a person, so what my friends are boys! You want to know why? Because PATHETIC BITCHES like you spread rumours! I haven't done anything to you at all, NOTHING at all and you start with me. It shouldn't concern you who my friends are and I'm quite worried why you're watching who I'm talking to. There's a difference between slag and having many lad friends. A slag is someone who's easy, sleeps around and doesn't have any class or any self respect or pride! none of which occur to me! I'm not even going to use the world probably because I KNOW I'm one of the most frigid classiest, self-respected innocent girls you'll ever come across! AND THATS A FACT! You're quick to run about saying people bully you or say horrible things, HMMM bit concerning how hypocritical you're being. What is it you need K? Attention? Is this the only way you can get it? Your barks bigger than your bite it always has been, and let's face it girls like you won't ever understand how it is to be nice and not-bitchy to people. Trying to publicly humiliate me were you? Thought you were hard over facebook making me look weak and stupid!? Hahahahah NO save it for my face you absolute disgrace of a girl or whatever you claim yourself to be. If you haven't got the manners to come and talk to me, see what I'm really like then keep your invalid opinion about me, you're nasty remarks and bullshit rumours to yourself and at least have the common decency to not try and make me look stupid and a slut when you haven't got a clue about me. If I'm honest, the only thing I'm seeing is jealousy! (Call me big-headed or whatever you please) but that's all I can see are you jealous I seem to be more popular with boys and get more male attention than you? Because EVERYONE is saying how pathetic/jealous/bitchy/stupid you look, so take my advice and stop embarrassing yourself will you? Now FUCK OFF you horrible horrible HORRIBLE disgrace and attempt of a girl.

this was the last comment from a girl younger than DD

thing is she says she hasn't done anything, plus it's always her who gets targeted no matter what it's for.

Wow, that is quite strong worded! Have you spoke to shool?

no it only happened from t time

Was that to your dd?

I am so glad we didn't have facebook when I was younger, that is really awful for your dd. I saw a similar but not so strong worded one from my friend's dd's status yesterday,its worrying as it would be hard not to be on facebook at their age too I expect.

devient that really is shocking your poor dd. Hope youve managed to get something sorted. Kids can be so cruel and horrible. for your dd x

sounds as though your DD is being 'set up' by others...making her this target for abuse and bullying.
My sis worked with a mother who's DD was so badly bullied in this sort of way her DD tried to kill herself.
These kids deliberately lied to their parents that this innocent DD was smoking and drinking...the parents were phoning her mum and telling her that their kids were telling them this and felt she should know these issues, etc
It was quite a while before my sis colleague realised how twisted and cruel this had all been. The poor innocent DD was left 'off side' with her own parents for some time before her parents realised the depth of the cruel conspiracy going on for their DD. The poor DD had noone to turn to for a time and she was badly targeted daily by this handful of kids at school.
They removed her from the school to a new one, got support/counselling for their DD and she has grown into a lovely successful young woman now

Take all this to the school and probably the Police too. Bullying of this sort is often hidden and very difficult to resolve.
All the best to you all xx

DD took it to the school today and all has been quiet so far. However she now has me annoyed. She borrowed my mobile tonight in the car as hers was dead. I now have a convo with a friend who works at her school, she has pretended to be me and asked how these kids were today etc!!! I'm unsure how to tell my friend it was DD or what to say/punish DD.

it's all a bit unclear to me...do you wonder if your DD is creating any of this? I wonder about her thinking and maybe has she thought about this in a vengeful sort of way...'they bullied me so I'll make them pay for it'....do you think that DD is possibly wrong thinking a few things and it's bringing her more hassle?

I think you need to have a calm, serious talk with her...her motive behind pretending to be you, etc....what was her thinking when she decided to do this, what did she think she may achieve by this???

It seems quite complex.....try to stay calm, get on her side in wanting to understand her, tell her the truth is important...it's not about punishing her...it's about wanting to understand her and help her feel better about things...and help her find a way forward with whatever these issues really are....

I hope you gain some insight soon xx