I have namechanged for this, but I am a dad who has been posting here about DS1(3) dx ASD, GDD and would like some advice please. Sorry for the long post but I am trying not to drip feed here.
I applied for a SA for DS1 couple of months ago and as expected they have refused to access as he is not attending nursery at the moment. I have been offered a place locally at a 'ASD resource unit' but I would rather not send him there if I can help it. I know the next step is to appeal but here comes the dilemma.
We have been doing ABA with DS1 for a few months now and due to the lack of tutors locally, we moved away couple of months ago to a new place where we found tutors. we have not informed the authorities locally about the move because we wanted to continue with his medical care at the old place rather than go on a new waiting list. This in hindsight has been the best decision we made because not only has it benefited DS1 but DS2 is being offered excellent care as well and lot of issues identified which possibly could have gone unnoticed which is why I am reluctant to inform them. We still own the house and go back there for any follow up SALT, OT appointments etc..
All this has got so complicated that it has me wondering whether it is about time that we actually told the relevant authorities that we have moved and start the statementing process fresh at the new place. I am very confused about this now so I am posting here to get some perspective.
Appeal at the old place or apply for a statement at the new place. WWYD?