its the 3rd time ds as been seen by the community paed, last 2 times they fobbed me off this time saying he was too young, its just speech delay which is putting other stuff abt behind and hes getting frustrated. ds (3.8) this time went in he refused to do any tasks for the paed, the paed gave him some wooden blocks to play with just to keep him happy tbh and he sat for a while lining them up, paed asked him to copy a bridge but he refused, the only task he did do was a book one he was shown a pictures 1 was of a girl washing a car and he asked him what is she doing? ds said washing the car, then he was why and ds replied because its dirty he couldn't tell a story from 4 pictures put together (dont know what the task is called)
paed as taken nearly everything from what i said he can and can't do in the apointment ds ran off :( luckily my friend was waiting outside and grabbed him for me but now he as said he is waiting on what ds's new school says but at the caf ds will have only done 1 full week of half days there and im worried they are going to say no concerns (like his last school) the paed said if school have concerns over behaviour then ds will be refered to a disability team? (instead of cahms i think!) but if hes good at school then it looks like we will get no help!! ds can be a real handful, his tantrums are epic if i tell him off when out he runs out into roads so is still on reins/pushchair... he can be violent, he throws stuff he hit me infront of the paed :(
paed as said he doesn't fit classic autism because his eye contact is good, he is affectionate to me but ds is very routine led,lines stuff up and has obsessions and his play/social skills are behind but getting there, his language is still not 100% its quite immature still but the stuff he talks about is beyond his years. the paed said at 5/6 years they can test for adhd and autism (im guessing higher end) but its all depending on the school and what they say and i just feel like im going to be made out to be a liar or something