Hi
We were called in to see Paediatrician last week following a karyotype for ds4, who is 4. They have found a balanced partial inversio0n of the short arm on chromosome 14.
Now they said usually that's not worth a concern except for the family history. paed didn;t know much but geneticist will call us, could take months though.
DS4 has 3 siblings. DS1 has a diagnosis of Asperger's and attends a SN school. DS2 has suspected add and dyspraxia although has never been seen due to lots of silly factors. DS3 has autism and attends a special school. I am being assessed for Asperger's 9and I know I have it, am close to end of MA in Autism and quite aware!). DH has some history of depression. Mum lost 4 babies from stillbirth at 28 weeks. Sister and Nan have a genetic thyroid issue (Nan died from it as it affected her heart). two cousins have had leukaemia (they each ahd a parent who was a sibling of my Mum).
DS4 has a speech delay but has been discharged by SLT for the meantime as he would not cooperate, he is like that with strangers but I was told 'he doesn't have autism, he is just mollycoddled'. I don't have time to mollycoddle anyone! We have been asked to apply for a statement by school for September as he is so passive in class. he has lots of rituals as one would suspect; diagnosis has been slowed to rule out copying his siblings, I agree with that although equally I know that in fact he presents very differently from either of them.
They are going to call us in to take tests from DH, me and his ASD sibs but can;t fund them from ds2, which is a shame I think.
I will cross post this in SN as well but anything anyone can tell me- please? Thank you.