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I need help and advice regarding an epically failed DFG

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Tinkymand · 31/07/2012 13:28

Hi there,

I know this may not be relevant to you but if you could help with any
advice or point me in the right direction of where i could get help with
this issue I would be very grateful. I really don't know where else
to go and I feel as if I am banging my head against a brick wall.

Just to cut a long story short, we need your help with our battle
with the council.

We have a 6 year old disabled child, Riley, with Dandy Walker Syndrome, and we bought our first house last year which needed adapting in order for Riley to be able to access everywhere. We applied for a DFG for this to happen, which we thought would be simple and stress free as its the council who have
handled it all. We have had a through the floor lift installed, a ramp
installed, the garden path redone, 2 ceiling track hoists installed, a
doorway widened, a new boiler and finally a shower room installed
upstairs.

Whilst we are of course grateful that we have not had to pay for
this, which amounted to over £30,000, the work standard has been
appalling. We had a live wire hanging from a ceiling, water running out
under the door of the shower room instead of towards the drain, boxing
put in over pipes which have made it impossible for Riley to use the
sink in the shower room (which was supposed to be purpose built for
him), we were left with no washing facilities for Riley and the list
goes on and on and on.

After an 8 month battle we finally had a different contractor
coming in to repair some of the work but the council are still refusing
to do all the repairs and refusing to pay for specialists to check for
damage that we cannot see but they are specialised in looking for, for
example, a structural engineer to check the joists under the shower room
as the floor outside of it is not sealed and water has been leaking out
there, under the door.

We were advised by a structural engineer (that we were paying for to
check other joists in Riley's bedroom) to get it checked as there was a
possibility the water may have caused dry rot in the joists due to the
floor not being sealed. The fault lies with the previous contractor who
did not level the floor properly to make the water run towards the drain
and therefore, as it was their contractor we feel they should have to
pay for these checks. The risk is too great to not get the checks done
but they are still refusing to pay for it, and this is just one example.

The contactor turned up yesterday to start the work and within 10 minutes walked back out saying it was worse than he thought and wasn't willing to do the work so we are back at square one!!

We complained to the Home Improvement Officer, then to his manager,
then his manager and finally to the MP who forwarded it onto the Chief
Executive and we still can't get anywhere. I am at my wits end because
we are still no closer to getting this sorted and we are running out of
time because I am 25 weeks pregnant and we can't have a newborn in this
building site. The council are of course aware of this but it makes no
difference to them, for example, I am still having to carry Riley up and
down the stairs. It is dangerous for me to do so with being pregnant but
we have no other option.

We have no idea where to go next and are feeling completely lost with it all. Riley doesn't have a bedroom because that's where they are supposed to be working, I have a building site for a house, a place not ready for a baby as it should be and I have been warned by the midwives to not lift Riley and to try to keep the stress levels down but I dont see how?!

Any ideas?

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Lougle · 31/07/2012 13:39

Hi, there are lots of people in SN:Children, who know about DFGs. I've asked MNHQ to move the thread there, so that they see it.

Tinkymand · 31/07/2012 14:16

Thank you, i'm just pleased we might finally get somewhere with this.

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SandyMumsnet · 31/07/2012 15:50

Hi there,

We will shortly be moving this thread to SN:Children as we feel it is a better fit.

Tinkymand, we see this is OK with you. Best of luck with it.

Thanks

pinkorkid · 31/07/2012 22:36

Sorry, no experience of this but bumping for you so the eevening crowd will see it. It's appalling that they haven't acted on your complaints yet.

Bigpants1 · 01/08/2012 21:24

Hi Tinkymand,
Have you written to the Director of Social Work for your area? (I'm presuming the work was agreed through the OT at the SWDepartment). In your letter, you could mention how you feel your ds is being discriminated against as his equipment isn't fit for purpose, how this impacts on his schooling-can't wash properly,affects his self esteem, impacts on his quality of life, etc.
Have you tried a Solicitors letter? Even if you don't have funds to take Legal Action, sometimes, a Legal Letter, spelling out how the Law is being broken etc, can be enough to make a Dept. think again about the situation.
You could threaten going to the Press. No-one wants to see their Dept. in a bad light, even in the Local Press.
As an aside, it's not a good idea to put too much revealing info. in your posts, incase someone recognises you in real life. Also, there have been recent instances where LA's have read posts on the SN Board, so just so you are aware. Good Luck.

Bigpants1 · 01/08/2012 21:28

Sorry, forgot to add, have you tried asking your Midwife, Consultant & your GP to write letters of support for you to the SWDept & the Council!

mariammariam · 01/08/2012 22:21

Small claims court against dodgy contractor? Or against council? Failing that, most of the councils employ surveyors and if they thought you would sue them, they might send one to check theres no dry rot.

Tinkymand · 02/08/2012 18:39

I think I might try to get the letters of support. I'm not sure they will do anything but it wont hurt to try.
I have a meeting with a solicitor next week but the issue with taking it through court is it could take months, which I don't have.

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