Tallmummy,
i know how you feel, we only found out at 14 months old that dylan had delay and hypotonia, although i had been pushing for months.
Like i have said previously in the thread every child differs.
Dylan, now 3 years and 3 months can walk up to 15 steps, he has splints on both legs, piedro boots and a special helmet due to his very poor balence.
he can not speak, except for yes and no, although he is making new sounds all the time of which i am very hopeful that he will get their eventually, but i just don't know. He is however very good with his eye contact and letting us know his needs etc...
he is still in nappies and no where near toilet training and he also attends an SN school in the nursery department with a statement of SEN.
But all said and done, he is happy and always smiling and has definately improved since his DX.
He is doing things now that i was told not to expect of him.
But please, like i say, every child is different and will get their in their own time to the best of their capability.
I am so lucky to have my son, and yes it can be hard, but he such a delight and i wouldn't change him for the world.
Butty.xxx