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getbakainyourjimjams · 04/03/2006 10:55

Have any parents on here had access to any courses like this? Ds1 is getting larger and I am working hard to switch over more to situations being controlled verbally (so if he refuses to go to bed I no longer just lift him up to his bedroom, but work on reinforcers etc). There are times though when he does need to be physically handled, either because he's trying to do somehting like headbutt the window or when we're out on the street and he's trying to do something forbiden. Last week we were out for a walk and he wanted to look through a neighbours letterbox and through their windows (nose pressed to the glass). Obviously that's not allowed but we ended up having a kind of physical scrap in the street, which a) looks terrible and b) can't continue as one of us risks getting hurt - if he runs off it's straight into the road, which gives me the shivers.

I've thought about asking at ds1's school whether parents could go to the same training as staff. Has anyone done anything like this?

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Blandmum · 04/03/2006 10:59

Some LEAs run this sort of thing JJ. I would have a word with the school and see what they can advise. They tend to be run by external agencies round with us, so you would be able to get on a course.....pricey though.

The once I have seen part of are all about safe restraint (safe for him and you)

getbakainyourjimjams · 04/03/2006 11:03

The pricey bit was why I was thinking of asking the school- they run Makaton classes that parents can attend for example. It annoys me really- parents are the main carers but get no help with retraint or lifting of any of the things that paid carers get taught. I don't think its something that we would need to use very often with ds1- but outside last week when he was trying to look through the letterbox I did worry. I was stuck - couldn't get him to walk back home- even thourhg it was only about 6 doors away, couldn't keep him away form the neighbours house- swas worried he was going to slip out of my hand and run into the road.......

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Blandmum · 04/03/2006 11:10

Totaly agree, it stinks. We don't get sent on these in our school, tbh we have little need. However it worries me that I can't retrain sefely if the need arrises.

parents should be given this training as a matter of course Sad Angry

The pwers that be should have to do what you do every day, for a day. Then things might change Angry

amynnixmum · 04/03/2006 11:13

I asked for this when ds started his new school and all the staff working with him needed to be trained. The school wouldn't have minded but the people training them said no - it was for teachers only. I even pulled the 'I'm a childminder' card but they didn't want to know. In the end ds teacher explained some of the stuff that they learned on the course but its not the same as actually being trained proplerlyAngry

getbakainyourjimjams · 04/03/2006 11:16

oh FGS that's bloody ridiculous. So we're just meant to put up with bad backs etc, and risking hurting our children through inappropriate restraint. When he was kicking off in the street I ended up standing behind him with my hands linked arund his chest, but I couldn't move to get home and it didn't really calm him. Have no idea what I was meant to do.

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Blandmum · 04/03/2006 11:20

Totaly insane.

Davros · 04/03/2006 18:27

DS's school had a two day course added on to the end of half term. I was tempted to ask if parents could attend if they wanted (mind you, we were looking after the children of course!). I'd love to have this sort of training as I also rely on being able to manage DS verbally but he's started to become a bit of a Kevin at 10.5yrs and is beginning to ignore me sometimes which fills me with dread. I think I'll ask who/what exactly the training was a maybe bring it up with the LEA and other parents at the school. Maybe we can get some funding.

getbakainyourjimjams · 04/03/2006 19:32

I think I might ask at the next school coffee morning- they'll at least know who to approach.

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onlyjoking9329 · 04/03/2006 19:44

in my old job we did do training on restraint, thou it was called something else, social services got some outside training company to do it as they were not allowed to provide it, and we were not supposed to use it Grin

getbakainyourjimjams · 04/03/2006 19:49

How bizarre!

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