Hi. I'm a longterm poster on the general boards, nc for a specific question which I hope someone can help me with please.
A bit of background. DS (age 7, end of yr 3) has HFA. At home he's a joy - behaviour is strange but liveable with, in terms of maturity and responsibility he's about a year or two behind his age, but making steady progress (not catching up, not losing ground, remaining a couple of years behind ITSWIM).
At school though, his lack of maturity is compounded by the fact that he's a July baby and the school is struggling to cope. Academically his reading and science are excellent, his maths is average for yr 3 (real average, not normal for MN). But he will not write without one to one coaxing on a word by word basis, he will not do PE without one to one support, during music he'll hide in the corner or yell, in assembly he runs around etc etc. the basic problem is that he lacks any motivation do to what everyone else in his class is doing. If his class were at Wembley watching the FA cup final he'd be turning around and lifting up his chair to examine a bit of lichen he'd found on the floor.
The school have essentially opted for self-directed learning in parallel to the rest of the class. He is very gradually becoming more integrated into the class, and it's pretty successful except that he is not learning to write, and without additional resources for one-to-one support it's not going to happen at school (I can put the hours in at home, but that's a separate issue - and no, typing is no better).
Hence the school have started the statement process, with our full support. SENCO has sent a very full statement to LA, which we have co-signed, with a short note to say that we agreed to the SENCO's description.
LA have now sent us a form for our agreement to statutory assessment which also contains a section saying "I agree to statutory assessment as I am concerned about.....".
My question is, how important is the way I fill in this form. Can I just say "I am concerned that my DSs ASD makes it impossible for the school to motivate him to join in / produce written work without one to one support" and leave the SENCO's detailed report to do the rest, or do I need to make a full case for additional support in that space? I've asked for an appointment with SENCO for advice, but I'd really like some advice from people who've been through it please.
And if anyone with relevant experience has any thoughts or tips on the other issues in my post please feel free to comment. Many thanks.