Its not fair!!

[marymary1000]

Hi Ds is 9 not dx but shows many asd traits.

He is going through a 'not fair' stage, for example today it was raining and today is his football day at school, apparently its not fair because god must know its his football day and he's made it rain on purpose! I've explained that whilst its disappointing its not unfair its just unfortunate.

Now as funny as this sounds he genuinly was really cross about it and thought it very unjust.

The other day at school sports, his school came second, held it together at the event then let rip in the car, about how unfair and unjust the whole event was, that he wanted to see the scores to double check everything.

We have this a lot, and I have sympathy with him to a degree, but after a while say an hour and he still has the hump, my patience wears a little thin.

Any ideas???????????

all you can do is explain why its just the way it is and not a conspriesy against him.

incidently if you think he has asd issues get him a referal to the assesment team

I have no ideas other than earphones and the odd nod in his direction in perfect time when its getting under your skin a bit. I have enough issues at the moment with the WHY word

Aww, not sure if my sympathy is with your ds or with you tbh :)
My NT ds can be like this with football... if they lose its everybody elses fault bar his team for not playing so well... the referee was against them, the other team cheated, other parents shouted too loud, pitch too wet/dry whatever... but so unjust.

I always just put it down to his competitive streak & being passionat eabout sport... compete PITA though.