Hi all Moose here
I'm posting for a friend of mine, who knows I am asking for this advice and is ok with it.
Said friend has been trying to get the school to take her dd's problems seriously, but has met with a lot of resistance and stonewalling. She came to me for help because she knows about ds1 and that we are 'in the system' so-to-speak.
I suggested she went through GP, as she initially thought AS. GP referred to Comm Paed, who thought dyspraxia, although heavens know why as this little girl is well co-ordinated,with no obvious motor problems.
Paed referred to OT and discharged at that point. OT assessed and said not definitely DCD, but there seem to be a lot of sensory issues going on and that she needed to be assessed by EP, then discharged.
SENCO refused to accept there was a problem and flat out refused to refer to EP. The poor girl is still not even on SA, despite just about to go into year 2 and unable to read or write at all, is seemingly unable to listen to and take in verbal instructions, has regular 'big tantrums' out of sheer frustration and is also having wetting accidents at school several times a day.
She is being fed the usual 'emotionally immature' line by school, although her dd's teacher has finally just agreed that perhaps drawing up an IEP might be an idea. (Suspiciously this was after found out and told her that she could self refer to EP and gave her the details on how to do it.) Because paed and OT both discharged with no forward referral, I have advised her to go back to her GP, but after the nonsense the SENCO has been feeding her she is worried she won't be taken seriously.
Now, she has been doing some research and thinks the closest match to her dd's issues seems to be APD. The thing is, I have no idea about the best way to get this recognised/dx. I know that normal hearing tests won't pick it up and that that is all she is likely to be offered via the usual NHS route.
Can anyone advise me/her/us of the best route to take to get her dd assessed for APD and how to make sure she gets referred the right people?
She doesn't have any money for private assessments, so we need to find a way to get her help via the NHS if at all possible.