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Special day for my son

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Tina2003 · 03/06/2012 20:08

Just thought I share this experience...My son has Cerebral palsy, he is 8 years old and suffered a severe stroke at birth due to prematurity. This left him with a range of health issues, one being mobility problems. Difficulty walking, coordination between brain and limbs etc etc. List goes on and on. He is very determined and last Friday his school had a sports day. I was nervous and even thought about keeping him home. He asked to be signed up to do spoon and egg race and another fun race. I didn't want to see him hurt because he would not be able to run as other children. His difficulties have been causing him lots of frustration lately because he just wants to be able to do everything his friends do. When it came time for his first race, the egg and spoon one, he came in last, even though he was given a jump start. I could see he was embarrassed and upset with himself. When he had to run his fun race, I braced myself for another disappointment, thinking how I would comfort him and rehearsing the words in my mind to make him feel better. What I saw that morning is something that I will never forget! There were about 7 other children running in same race, all same age and year group as my son. When they saw how hard he was trying to run and how much pain he was in, they all ran the race but stayed just behind him to cheer him up and allowed him to win. He was so happy and it just made his day that he was able to win. It touched my heart seeing other children being so compassionate and giving my son the opportunity of experiencing for once how it felt to win. I was taking pictures and filming, I just dropped everything and ran to the finish line to hug him and tell him how proud I am of him. He said to me 'Mummy did you see that I actually won! Can you believe it? '
Just wanted to share this experience..

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SallyBear · 03/06/2012 20:11

Sniff sniff sniff! That is beautiful. Thank you. X

ThoughtBen10WasBadPokemonOMG · 03/06/2012 20:19

What lovely children. That is so lovely that they allowed him such a special moment :)

RinkyDinkyDoo · 03/06/2012 20:24

Yes, pass me the tissues, but wonderful and thank you for sharing.A treasured memory for all who were there.x

2old2beamum · 03/06/2012 20:27

Children have so much humanity it humbles me sob sob sob

sneezecakesmum · 03/06/2012 20:35

That also make me a bit tearful.....it is so lovely.

One of the nurses who deal with DGS with CP told us that in her experience, rather than teasing children with CP young children actually made a big fuss over them and wanted to help with everything. Your story shows this too and gives us a bit of comfort for the years ahead Smile

coff33pot · 03/06/2012 22:31

oh wow! pass me the tissues :)

What a lovely read and lovely peers he has also what determination your DS has :)

StabbyMacStabby · 03/06/2012 22:40

What lovely caring children, I'm really pleased your DS is so happy, what a fabulous boost for him

WannaBeMegMarch · 03/06/2012 22:44

Lump in my throat. What a great child you have and I hope the parents of the other 7 are proud of theirs too.

Hulababy · 03/06/2012 22:47

Oh my - it is a rare thing, but that post has actually brought more than a few tears to my eyes.
What wonderful children and how special for your little boy!

insanityscratching · 03/06/2012 22:48

Tears in my eyes here too, lovely lovely children and a wonderfully brave son.

marchduck · 03/06/2012 22:48

Well done your DS for winning the race, and what lovely classmates he has.

Tina2003 · 03/06/2012 23:11

Thank you all..:)

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dietstartstmoz · 03/06/2012 23:18

How wonderful. Tears in my eyes too. He will remember that for such a long time, bet lots of the adults were teary too.

starfish71 · 03/06/2012 23:19

That is so wonderful! Fantastic children and such a great day for you and your DS! :)

WetAugust · 04/06/2012 01:24

A memory to cherish. Smile

TheLightPassenger · 04/06/2012 09:09

I'm a hardenerd ole gimmer when it comes to forum posts, but yes, the tears have come to my eyes too, how lovely Smile

NoHaudinMaWheest · 04/06/2012 13:46

How lovely! Well done to DS for determination and the others for thoughtfulness.

imogengladheart · 04/06/2012 14:12

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Tina2003 · 04/06/2012 14:29

No I will never forget it, I just wanted to hug all of the children and thank them. What I found amazing was that it came as an initiative from them, 7/8 year old children who saw their friend struggle and didn't abandon him just to go on and win. I thought it reflected as well what kind of upbringing they are getting at home, the parents teaching their children to show compassion and winning is not always the most important thing. As his mother, sometimes I overdo and try to protect him as much as I can but I am glad I didn't take away this opportunity from him. If any of those parents are here on Mumsnet and read this, they know who my son is and just want to say, thank you and you have amazing special children.

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somewheresomehow · 04/06/2012 16:42

Oh wow what fab friends he has.
That has brought tears to my eyes as well :)

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