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ThoughtBen10WasBadPokemonOMG · 25/05/2012 07:12

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ThoughtBen10WasBadPokemonOMG · 26/05/2012 19:39

We have a crappy senco who I overheard today saying she has 22 working days left till she retires. I am equally happy about it. The new SENCO used to be the Pastoral Care manager so I'm very pleased with her appointment. I really hope that she can find a similar child. It is only a 45 intake so the choices are more limited.

He starts Y3 in September. He is doing well at his clubs we do out of school with socialising. In school is still an issue though. I intend to get the new SENCO to understand him as soon as she starts. There are only a couple of kids on the spectrum in the school.

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moosemama · 26/05/2012 19:50

Hope the new SENCO is good. It made all the difference to ds1 when our hopeless 'coasting to retirement' SENCO left, despite the fact the new SENCO discovered she hadn't kept any records at all relating to ds. Angry

Y3 is when the other boys start to get interested in video games etc and they also tend to mix a little more with the older boys, who are interested in them. I know ds used to have two particular Y6 boys that would come and ask him how to get round certain problems in their games and it really helped his confidence that he knew some of the 'big boys'.

Y3 is a tough year though, I think for nt children as much as sns kids in msny cases. I know some of ds2's classmates struggled and they are all nt. They are all adjusting to no longer being the little infants children and trying to find their place in the hierarchy. It takes a couple of terms for them to settle in. The upside is that some of them find that they do have different interests to the rest of the boys in the year and start to seek out like-minded children to mix with. If there are any others who are into Pokemon etc they will be more likely to find your ds.

GurlwiththeFrothyCurl · 26/05/2012 19:52

DS is in his twenties. We had the Pokemon obsession, the fountains and waterfalls obsession, the biting the skin around his fingernails obsession, the travelling on trains obsession and on and on....

The worst? I kid you not, it was the "I love you Mummy" obsession. Does that sound mean? Probably does, but it was when he said those words over and over and over all day every day! For weeks and months, on and on and on.

Until I was screaming (in my head) "I know you fucking love me, but will you pleeeeeeeeeeeae shut up about it!!!!!!"

ThoughtBen10WasBadPokemonOMG · 26/05/2012 20:00

I'm expecting Y3 to be tough Moose. It is a primary but KS1 is in the new extension and KS2 is in the original Victorian school. They will have smaller classrooms which are worse for all of the sensory stuff. At least as you say the whole of KS2 are together at lunchtime which means that he will have more children to mix with.

Gurl You are not filling me with positive thoughts! Grin

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insanityscratching · 26/05/2012 20:24

Ds's are bearable now, we had TV aerials(only a particular style) Lamp posts (he was in seventh heaven when they numbered them all), traffic lights (still full of joy at new road layouts because of addition of new lamp posts and traffic lights) the Think Bike signs, road signs, shutters on shops,lights in fridges, numbers, doors, routes (which was useful as he'd direct us anywhere he'd ever been to so like a personal sat nav) and the time (he has an in built clock that is accurate within seconds that drives me mad)
Alongside the F1 and football we have traffic jams so we get a full run down of any congestion the length of the country every time we leave the house and even if we don't. Still doesn't grasp that a hold up 300 miles away isn't really a concern tbh

moosemama · 26/05/2012 20:43

Sounds a very similar set up to ours, except that our KS1 building was built just after I left the school in the early 70's and the KS2 extension was tacked on partly in the late 90's and partly in the early noughties.

The smaller classrooms are a problem, but they don't tend to have as much stuff up on the walls or worse, pegged out on string hung across the room, so there's less visual noise, iyswim.

Insanity, I'd forgotten that - ds1 had a thing about lamp posts when he was little. He used to count them and knew where we were ie, almost at Grandma's house etc by which lamp post he could see. Mind you dh used to use counting the lamp posts as a means of remembering which bus stop to get off at when he'd been out boozing as a teenager - so maybe it's genetic. Grin

Another of ds's current minor obsessions is the built in sat nav in dh's new company car. Ds is obsessed with how often the length of journey time prediction changes. He doesn't like the fact that it might say we will arrive at X o'clock when he first checks, but then changes to a different prediction and time according to our speed and traffic etc. He no longer asks are we nearly there yet, but he constantly strains his neck to see if he can see the screen (cue getting clonked on the head by dd whose car seat is in the middle) and then asks "What time does it say we'll arrive now Mum?" Hmm

He also gets upset if dh doesn't go the way the sat nav tells him to, so it has to recalculate the route - talk about back-seat driver! Grin

GurlwiththeFrothyCurl · 26/05/2012 22:28

We have also had car washes, maps, shopping centres, every route and station on the Tube and more.

OP, he said to me the other day that if he could be cured of ASD he wouldn't want to be as he wouldn't be interested in X any more! So he does have some insight into himself.

Now he is older, they seem to have settled into a couple of things. Although he does branch out occasionally with something unexpected. Sadly, none of these are very useful when it comes to getting a job.

Why couldn't it be Astrophysics or Engineering? Something useful? Grin

GurlwiththeFrothyCurl · 26/05/2012 22:31

Oh, I forgot one from his younger days: having to do a poo in the toilet of every shop on our high street. Even the shops that didn't have customer loos.

They all let him - phew!

SilkStalkings · 26/05/2012 22:43

A High Street Poo Quest! Love it!Grin

GurlwiththeFrothyCurl · 26/05/2012 22:48

Funny how all of these felt like a nightmare at the time and we can now look back and laugh at them!

If you have younger DCs than us, beware of the money obsession. DS has wasted £100s with that one. Be prepared in advance if you can!

swanthingafteranother · 27/05/2012 17:20

I am so envious of all your dcs' obsessions. I remember feeling cross when the CAHMS lady went on about Pokemon as ds2 wasn't remotely interested in Pokemon or Ben 10 and it would have been rather nice if he was...(I like consumer obsessions which involve toys)
No we only have football and Formula 1 atm...and ds2 has given up toys completely. He did like SPACE, Thunderbirds and Star Wars, and he still likes Percy Jackson but otherwise nothing has clicked recently. So hoping he will fall in love with fossils or entymology Moosemama and cockroach lady...

We like collecting things so we wouldn't mind any sort of display cabinet Wink He is 10.

signandsmile · 27/05/2012 18:35

its not just the kids.... Hmm. Dh's obsession is the tube and odd general rail stuff, old closed stations etc. He was ecstatic with joy one day to have stopped at a station he never had before... "in all the years he had been travelling that route!!!" (it was a v quiet request stop...) it's also London Buses too.... Hmm

He says if anyone's ds still has the tube obsession he might have books/ resources to share/borrow. bless him!

insanityscratching · 27/05/2012 18:36

Swan we have football and formula 1 too. Ds also considers them male interests so will not speak about them with any females which saves me from the incessant chat but also means he rarely speaks to me at all.

Shellywelly1973 · 27/05/2012 18:53

Im getting off lightly with my Ds at the moment... Usual lego, Club Penguin&currently Super Mario.
When he was younger he asked me to draw a face on an egg...i did,of course the egg cracked & i drew a new face on a new egg but it wasnt 'right' so this went on&on for months. Ds called them his egg friends,(we ate a lot of eggs during this time!!) He used to carry the eggs around with him,bear in mind these were raw eggs. I tried hard boiling them but he'd eat them&ask me to draw a new face on a new egg. Anyway one day he left his new egg on the side but it rolled of&landed on hid dads Mac Book Pro!!! £1900 worth of lap top covered in egg. We managed to get it repaired,the engineer said the egg was scrambled inside the key board. That was it Dh totally refused to allow Ds any more egg friends!
I love my lil Aspie...

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