Hi, after many years of being pulled from pillar to post re my son's difficulties my husband and I saved and paid for a private Ed Psyc to asses our son aged 9. For the record NB has had an IEP since year 1 and was rejected for a statement which we applied for through the school about 2 years ago.
The Ed Psyc diagnosed receptive language disorder but said that he did not think NB's difficulties were severe enough to apply for a statement again and that we would be better off attempting to arrange a comprehensive speech and language assesement and speech and language therapy once a week. (non clinical)
The Senco teacher at the school NB attends is very pleasant however I believe she is an acting SENCO teacher. My husband and I have on several occasions requested that the school arrange for their preferred and linked Ed Psyc to assess NB (first assessed 3 years ago) again, as I was not convinced that the help they are providing him at school was infact the correct help.
After months of not arranging anything we decided to go private, but this was really for our benefit as we were not haveing much success on the NHS and we want to provide what is best for NB by way of the support and the help he requires. Since the private Ed Psyc visited the school the Senco teacher has written to me requesting a meeting with herself and the schools preffered Ed Psyc to go through the report written by the Ed Psyc I paid for.
Is this normal practice? I feel annoyed that we have forked out 850 pounds only for the school to now want to read and use this report! I am trying to be objective and hope that the Senco teacher will use the report to try and support NB further at school however I am perplexed why only now after all these months they are requesting that the school Ed Psyc be present to review this report I paid for. I can't help but feel they want to read the report in order to see that the school has not been painted in a bad light, although I want to believe their motive is to see how best they can support NB and if any further assesment is required.
Has anyone advice on how I should approach this? Should I request the school perform their own assessment? How can I best get the school to perhaps have NB asessed by SALT and help provide for the therapy he requires?
I feel I am on the left foot so to speak, I am grateful for the help the school has provided but I do not believe it is enough or that the help they have thuss far been providing is the correct support for NB and I believe they could be doing more however I am not sure they are obligated to, given that he is not statemented!
Should the school be helping more? Can I request that they arrange a SALT assessment? Should I show the Senco teacher the report from the ED Psyc which we paid for?
Thank you in advance for any advice re the above!!