Skew, what sort of squint does he have?
Is it completely fixed, or does it alternate? If it alternates at all, then patching is completely useless. The brain just 'sees' with whichever eye focuses on a target first. The other picture just gets ignored.
Dd2 had an alternating converging squint (I'm guessing ds's is converging), and similar prescriptions in both eyes, and cp.
In the uk, every single eye dude said it wasn't worth surgical correction because it was caused by a neurological condition (you know squints are x% more common in kids with cp, yada yada). When we moved to Canada just before she was 7, the first eye specialist was utterly baffled why she had not had the squint surgically corrected. So he booked her in for the surgery and did it. Up until the age of about 8, the brain may be able to build new pathways to get a degree of binocular vision (which we had always been told was going to be impossible for dd2 in the uk)
So, she still wears her glasses (which are obv a similar prescription to ds's - she is slightly longsighted but only wears them because of the squint - it shortens the point of focus or some such nonsense, without the eye having to do it) but her eyes are pretty much straight thanks to the surgery.
The first few days after surgery were v funny whilst dd2's brain rewired itself to the new focus. She would be desperately trying to push lift buttons four inches to the left of where they were, putting things on the table, which missed completely and sailed straight to the floor, etc etc. but of all the cp related conditions, the squint in the end was the easiest fix by far (if you exclude the 6 years of eye hospital tests and visits, and glasses, and blah. The surgery itself was fast, day case, and within a few days she was back to normal but with straight eyes.
I have a suspicion that the cp was the sole reason she wasn't offered surgery in the uk. And not because of the anaesthetic risk, but more 'why would you bother'...
Give me a shout if you have any q's.