Oh dear. I've just been to GP because DS (5 years old) is still struggling to keep up with other children in terms of physical development. I knew he has developmental verbal dyspraxia, and is well looked after by school, Nuffield hospital and local speech therapy team, but now GP (a really good senior GP) strongly suspects that he has hypotonia as well as hypermobility...
Everytime we've had appointments with doctors, peds, speech therapists, etc there are always questions about the birth. Now, I had a c sec, but not because baby was in distress or heart problems, but because of me. However, during a discussion this morning with GP, he probed me a bit further and I remembered one thing that happened and it just made me think a lot about how the birth went.
I was supposed to have scheduled c section (I had a c sec with first child, and overdue with DS2 so I opted for elective) but when I got in hospital I was in labour. So I opted to carry on with labour, and one of the doctors kept on asking me if I wanted the amniotic sac to be broke. I said no twice, but she kept on asking me and in the end I gave in. I was about 4 or 5 cm, still in a communal room, on monitors. When she pocked the sac open, the baby's heart beat was lost. In a matter of seconds, I had a doctor trying to fit a canula in my hand, and a number of doctors/nurses around me pushing me to the c section room for an emergency operation - it was all a bit panic for everyone, not helping me shouting at the doctor that it was all her fault.
Anyway, someone showed up with a portable ultrasound machine and they finally found a heart beat. The 'conclusion' was that the baby's heart beat was lost because he suddenly descended and changed position, and his heart beat remained stable for the rest of labour, and after 12 hours I had a c sec anyway because I pushed for 2 hours and he never descended in the birth canal.
I hope you are still reading!!! After my appointment this morning, I had one of those 'oh shit' moment. Could this be that DS's heart stopped beating for a while? Could it be what is causing his problems?
He has reached milestones late (sitting up, eating, walking...) and has a severe speech delay (disorder), and has low muscle tone generally. Not a major dissability, but nevertheless, some important issues.
I don't know if I'm asking a question, or just thinking outloud, or simply I want to take this off my chest. I have now called the local Patient Advice Liaison Service to see if I could have access to the birth notes. Will this help? Has any of you gone through that process?
Thanks for comments, thoughts, reassurance, anything!
BPxx