DS has not been diagnosed with ASD. He has auditory processing difficulties and when I had his hearing checked the ENT SR went off on one asking why I was there, saying that APD was the latest fashionable label for autism. He said that DS was autistic but that I was lucky because he was 'quiet' and that it was difficult but Mum was the best resource
. I thought he was talking crap but now I am concerned.
Is it possible that undiagnosed autism can manifest as dylexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, auditory processing difficulties, inattentive ADHD, extreme sensitivity to clothes/bedding (tags, seams, too rough etc) and to touch (says hugs hurt) screams blue murder over the slightest bump, multiple tics, anxiety etc? Would the EP assessment suggested ASD? Is it worth getting a SALT assessment? Which assessments, if any, do I need and where should I go.
When he was a baby he was bloody hard work and unrewarding. My face used to ache from smiling so much but he never smiled until he was well over 6 months. As a toddler he started having tantrums that continue to date. He would never join in playing with other children and was very much a velcro child. He would demand to be taken to a playpark but then refuse to use any equipment if there was another child nearby. However he seemed to be meeting his developmental targets and there were no S&L concerns.
He does seem to care about friendships at school but they seem to be around interests. Also he can appear rude as he ignores teachers/friends that say hello or goodbye to him. At the moment he is obsessed with scooters and has lost interest in previous friends who only care about playing World of Warfare. He has transferred schools in the past and does not maintain friendships - he simply had no interest in them when not at the same school even though we lived in the same house.
His use of language appears quite sophisticated and witty but I can recognise the comments from particular TV programmes that he watches obsessively. He does not seem to mind watching the programme over and over - he spots continuity errors in the Simpsons! In his writing at school I can recognise plots from TV. I can be sat next to him on the sofa, watching the same TV programme and he will turn to me and report what was just said. He talks continuously so that he has to be interrupted when I need to speak. He talks at me in monologues that always begin 'what happened was ..' he will then talk non-stop.
Is there a typical WISC profile - I had assumed that it couldn't be ASD because he has a very spiky profile in both verbal and performance?
Sorry I have to go now as DS is obsessing about his inability to drop-in! (scootering lingo)