Just back from a meeting which turned into a bit of a review with DDs school Head and SENCO. I needed to speak to the Head after DD told me some of the other children at school had been making comments about some of her behaviour (baby/scaredy cat
).
DD is already on SA+ (EY+) and has an IEP - this isn't due for review until June, but it's now going to be re-written as she is in obvious need.
She also had a SALT assessment which has brought up some interesting results - literal understanding is 4yrs (DD is 4.10yrs) vocabulary and vocalisation is 8yrs. The SALT is already bought into school and is on site on a weekly basis and has going to work with me to write a social story about toilets (it's all fun this ASD malarkey) and include DD in a social skills group.
SENCO has also suggested we have a named person to be able to challenge and at times physically check if DD needs to visit the toilet. DD regularly wets herself (not just daily, i mean frequently during the day) but very often doesn't tell anyone when she's done this. She can (usually) change her own clothes and will do this rather than tell anyone.
School have offered this help, and it will be written in to DDs EIP and SA+ record, but I'm wondering if we should have it as a statement, so that it's a more rigid declaration that she needs this help?
Or have I got the whole process messed up in my head and am barking up the wrong pole 