the woman from the LEA phoned me today and basically said that my DD will have to go to 1 of the 2 schools they have recommended, even tho both schools as it stands at the moment can NOT meet my daughters needs.
the SN school they have said even with extra provision for my DD, they still feel that they will be holding her back. ( this is less than 3 mile from where we live and without transport i would not be able to get her there)
the MS school are still currently unsure on what to do or what will be needed so that they can meet my daughters needs. even if they managed to figure and work all that out, we still feel that she would not mentally be able to cope with a MS high school. ( this school is 12.9 mile and about 40 mins travelling in a car- she also has mega issues in car travel)
but on the other hand i have an appointment with Dawn House tomorrow to take the DD and see what they can do for her. If they offer her a place ( this would be residential due to it being 58 mile away, but the travelling issue wouldnt be such an issue - only 2 car trips a week).