I think that's the difference between GDD and ASD, with ASD there are (quite) a few areas that are affected, but the profile can be spiky, with some areas developing normally, maybe some physical milestones, some academic ones that don't involve too much empathy, imagination etc.
With GDD there are at least 2 if not more areas that are developing more slowly than average so a child may not have the spikiness of profile and may be delayed across all areas affected. It's complex, though, as GDD doesn't necessarily mean all things are delayed, just more than one. That's my understanding, anyway. 
It could be that the 'autistic traits' are just because your DS hasn't reached the developmental stage that all DC go through that looks autistic, but it could also mean that he will continue to be delayed in those areas, social communication, interaction, imagination etc. A delay is just that though, it's not a complete stop, he should still be developing, just at a different rate to a NT child.