Short history
DS is 7 and has Aspergers.
He has been assessed for Specific Learning Disabilities and at the time she said that all indications were that he was dyslexic. She has just rung and said he is not dyslexic according to the testing (Woodcock Johnson III). At the time of the assessment she said she thought he had ADHD and wanted to refer him on.
The original psychologist who diagnosed Aspergers disagrees, his teachers disagree, we disagree. She said again that he will not learn with out medication. While this statement terrifies me, dh and I don't think that medication is the right call for our boy.
He is due for behavioural optometry assessment in July and I believe that he has sensory processing difficulties (still can't handle the noise of the hoover, can't go into shops which stock spices or strong perfumes/soaps, still has major meltdowns over hair washing, hair cutting (not hair brushing as we haven't brushed it since he was a baby), face washing, textures of clothing, still sucks his thumb and chews anything even remotely accessable etc and so forth)
Anyway we won't know until more assessment is done if he has ADHD but what could be going on if it is not?
The Woodcock Johnson showed his scores ranging from average/ high average to superior range but he cannot read or write?
Please give me some hope that medication is not the only way forward...