Hi
My dd 13 got a diagnosis of mild/moderate ASD at the end of Feb. Academically she is very capable but has significant difficulties in all other areas including sensory. She has been out of mainstream classes since October as she was not coping and spends her time in the student support unit. The unit is not equipped for a child to be in there full time as it is manned by support workers and no facilities for teaching. The school support dd a lot with play therapy, social skills classes, praise programs and fine motor skills. DD key worker (who is also the ASD worker) also meets with me weekly.
I applied for a SA (with schools support) at the end of Feb and the LEA have agreed to assess. The SENCO has told me that they can't say what setting she needs as that is what the SA process should identify and they aren't allowed to say but they have said that they don't see her being able to leave the student support in the future and the remit is only to accommodate children in Their for 2 weeks and also that without significant input in social/personal/behavioural areas that although she will be capable of leaving school with at least 5 GCSE's she won't be able to function in the adult world independently.
We all know mainstream is not right but the other choices are limited. There is a generic special school that has been suggested for us that do gcse's. It is a beacon school. It used to be for physical and medical disabilities but the LEA have took to using it for 'vulnerable" pupils. There are a high percentage of pupils with MLD. We went to visit and the environment was much more suited to dd with small classes and safety but I'm not convinced its the right place for her. I am concerned about the peer group for her.
So I suppose the question is how do I find out if itis the right place for her? How do I figure out if it's the right peer group or wether it's my inability to see my dd as disabled? DD has many PDA traits (especially demand avoidance) which the clinical psych said was because she's in the wrong school and won't go until she is but I feel need to be considered to be able to place her in the right educational establishment.
Thanks for reading