ds is 3y/o and goes to a private nursery he loves it there hes been going 18months it would break my ds's heart to leave there but his development the gap is getting wider, they don't see an issue really which makes me doubt myself SALT think his behaviour is fine but he is great 1-1 in a quiet environment and shes only seen him twice. community paed is crap but he agrees his behaviour is amiss but blames the speech, family support says speak to hv, hv says speak to family support... health visitor as been great to us getting services involved but the services are imo letting my boy down.
visited some school nurseries, 1 was way to vibrant with a massive out door play area with a wendy house decking ect, looked lovely tbh but not for ds he spent the whole time holding my hand and looking a 1 display they had but it is the closest and 5 members of his family are in that nursery.
the other school is very very good SEN wise, great SENCO who took time out to speak to me, the school inside was more calm more plain, ds walked round and he liked it, i explained about ds and what was happening and they said i need to apply for a statement even if he doesnt attend this school he needs 1-1 for speech.
im torn what to do!!! i know ds will get more help sen wise at 1 school but it will be a 15-20minute walk, 1 school he knows half the class and its nearer home so easier to walk too n fro from literally on the door step 3minute walk, the private nursery ds will be heartbroken to leave, its a big part of his life and the centre as been part of his life from 6 weeks old the hours suit me and ds better he only attends 3 half days there and he is so at home there