I know lots of people are having crappy tough times at the moment, 
so I am not trying to rub things in, but I just wanted to share that there are some good schools out there... we have just had ds'd first (at school) statement review.
The school were able to show evidence of how ds has made progress and what they are doing around the areas he struggles with, they were open to taking on board the points we made and our suggestions of what might help.
They were talking about how happy they were he was there, and I nearly made his TA cry when I said how fab she was, 
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They were open to discussion about his sensory issues and what they can do to help him.
I just wanted to give hope to people that there are some fab schools out there....
and 
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for all those struggling with crappy schools and awkward professionals....