they were in DS bedroom and he was playing a game on his playstation 2 i was in the bathroom and heard DS screaming hysterically and his friend ran downstairs and down the street crying.
I asked DS what he had done and he was crying and saying "he kept annoying me"
So i went down to J,s house and knocked on the door and J,s dad answered with his arms folded and i said "is J ok?" he said "j says that DS attacked him" i asked to speak to J and he said that DS grabbed him by his head,pulled his hair and punched him.
I knew that J was telling the truth the poor little lad was crying his eyes out, i said to J,s dad "DS says that J was making him angry im not using this as an excuse in any way, i will punish DS and i can only apologise for what he,s done"
J,s dad thanked me for coming round.
When i got home i asked DS had he done this to J and he said "yes because he was annoying me"
Me- "what did he do to annoy you?"
DS- "talk while i was trying to concentrate on the game-he knows i dont like it"
He refused to discuss it further, i know that he is very anxious and stressed out with whats going on but im not having him do that to J so as a punishment he is not allowed on his playstation for the next few days.
Hes never done this before and i dont know if ive handled it correctly, just wanted to offload ans see what methods you use for disciplining children with ASD.