Hello, I am trying to get a referel to a good paediatric neurologist. I've heard lots of good things about Sheffield childrens hosptial but also know that the Royal Hallamshire hospital in Sheffield has a neurologist dept. I just wondered if anyone could recommend one over the other? (Or anywhere else?)
Basically my son in nearly 5. So far we've had asd, adhd, apd, spd, dyspraxia, sli and probably others all given as possible problems but no-one is willing to give any formal diagnosis due to his age!
Addtionally he has, what in my mind are clear issues with some neurological problems. He has a pupil that won't dilate, a deviated ulvula, he can't volutarily close his eyes and can't make happy/sad faces (with the later he understand what I mean it's a 'can't do it' rather than ' can't understand/see the relavence type thing'. Additionally he had a weakness down one side when he was little although you cannot tell now. How much these are related to/the cause of or unrelated to his other issues I don't know? I guess that's what I need answering.
He's had an mri which showed nothing out of the ordinary, but that obviously doesn't means things are functioning normally.
I just feel like I'm going round and round in circles. If I follow every bit of advice given for all the issues he 'may' have, I'd be meeting myself coming backwards. I feel like I am now.
I guess what I want is for someone to say, no the neurological stuff is not an issue, or yes it is an issue but this is what we can do about it. Or even yes it's an issue but we can't do anything about it. Any of the above would be preferable to spending everyday wondering if I could be doing something more/better/different.
Up to now I've thrown everything I have at trying to help him and I'm realising I will not be able to keep this up for long. I need to focus on less things but choose those most likely to make a difference, but I can't evaluate what they are as I feel like I'm groping in the dark.
He does have a statement at school, and has a private ot invlovement and speech therapy at school, so he has some support, I just feel like I'm going out of my mind.
Anyway if has any opinion about the above hospitals I'd be grateful to know. Or if anyone could recommend a really good paediatric neurologist I'd be very grateful. Either through the nhs or privately, I don't mind. We live in Yorkshire but I will travel anywhere.
Thank-you for your help