Feeling a bit confused. Just had social work assessment completed. The SW visited ds's (age 6.5 with ASD) school and then had a meeting with me. She felt that he doesn't receive enough support. He gets 10 hours a week but 5 of them are for lunchtimes when he gets someone to sit with him eating and then watching him in the playground. That leaves 1 hour a day to try to get him to do his reading/writing and maths. His main problem is lack of attention and motivation and the speed with which he takes to do his tasks. He really needs someone to constantly 'prod' him. There is an auxilliary in addition to the teacher who can do this but she is shared with the rest of the class (16 pupils).
I had a meeting with his teacher and the head and brought up the possibility of more support. The head seemed to feel that it would be counterproductive and would create dependence within ds, ie he would always expect someone to be sitting with just him in order to complete his work. Also the classroom teacher is very keen on peer learning where the pupils read to each other and thinks this is important for encouraging social development. SW says its the teachers job to teach, not the children.
I don't know what to think, I can see both viewpoints in a way... but I know that ds does do a lot better if he is encouraged and motivated and he finds it hard to do this for himself as he doesn't see the point of a lot of the learning. He is behind the other children due to his learning difficulties and I feel he may just keep on slipping further and further. I've been told not to compare him and that he is progressing so perhaps I am worrying too much. Just feel totally confused as to what to do. I always felt support was a good thing but now I don't know????
Anyone help. Tried looking on the internet for resources etc but its taking too long and a lot of it I don't know where to start.