Hi, i wonder if people here can advise me. I would be very grateful for advice. I am sorry if it is a little long.
DS is 2.8 and only has a few words (about 4), has a number of probable ASD features including headbanging, chewing, fascination with switches and doors etc. I am a mental health professional and have quite a lot of knowldege about ASD, supplemented of course by lots of reading and Mumsnetting as it has become increasingly obvious that there is something going on. I am keen to get cracking with starting to put together an ABA programme earlier rather than later. (We have already been having private SALT for over 6 months)
However, we have no formal diagnosis yet. He has had one (what they called Stage 1) appointment at the local NHS Autism Clinic and has been put forward for a Stage 2 assessment. No letter has come yet, after several weeks, and when I phoned they said it can take up to 6 months (!) for the next appointment. I am not going to wait six months to get things going in terms of therapy. I am looking into seeing a private paed, but not much luck so far in getting the recommended one (Daphne Keen) to get back to me with an appt. I think I will look into other paeds next week (any suggestions?).
Anyway, in a flurry of activity last week, after deciding right, I need to get moving and get all the help I can, I contacted NAS, PEACH, local Parent Partnership, specialist health visitor etc etc, and I also phoned the Local Authority to ask about statementing. My idea is (I think, I am feeling raher overwhelmed by it all) to set up and fund an ABA programme myself and then hopefully later get the LA to agree to fund or part-fund, so I will need a statement, right? Well LA has sent me an info pack and a form to apply for the statementing assessment process to begin, which they say I need to return by 8 Feb (they will also be contacting the nursery).
I suppose things all seem to be happening a little in the wrong order now! I would very much have liked to get a diagnosis (or at least definitive opinion) from the medical professionals) before applying for the statement. But it does not seem that is going to work out that way. What i want to know is, shall I go ahead and apply for the statementing assessment to start anyway? And shoudl i start trying to put the ABA together now?