It's really odd isn't it the attitudes globally. E.Europe (hungary & romania) has AMAZING stuff going on for asd kids so long as you aren't of gypsy origin in which case you'll be treated as subhuman whatever your abilities.
Ibadan in Nigeria (ya know that 3rd world country the meeja tells us is full of fundamentalist nut jobs and internet scam artists) is in the process of setting up it's first aba school. The Nigerian women behind this iniative are incredible human beings who will never receive any public acclaim - but oh they deserve to!
In Norway ABA is the standard approach, in the US treatment is fantastic "IF" you have the hard cash otherwise your child will be left to rot.
Then here in the UK I've faced this "french refrigerator mother" attitude from my local cahms, (British wasp staff - NOT immigrants!) so it's not restricted to France sadly. I've also seen wonderful thngs being done for our children here.
To summarise I'm not gonna criticise the French as I think we still have too much work to do on this side of the channel. The VAST majority of our children with asd are failed. This board only represents a small subsection of the most educated, motivated parents and is far from typical, yet many have fought battle after battle to get their child the right help.