ds is 18 months with low tone, swallowing and feeding issues (still on mash and bite+dissolve foods), severe reflux and the possibility that he is aspirating (we have been endlessly waiting for an appointment for a videofluroscopy). He has an over large tongue, and tongue thrust still present, he drools a lot. Speech wise he understands most of what we say, his hearing seems ok (has a test next week), but he has no speech, the only sounds he makes are squeaks and squeals and 'aa aa aa' sounds there is no babbling. He doesn't point but will occasionally reach out for something if he wants it. We have being teaching ourselves Makaton and he does a sort of sign for 'mummy' 'more' and a head slap that we haven't quite interpreted yet!
He goes to sn nursery (with me) twice a week, where he will occasionally see a SALT for 10-15 minutes. She always recommends the same thing, reading simple books, singing and makaton. And she has told us to use chewy tubes (we fail regularly to do this!) and play with his mouth. Ds is very clingy with me, even more so at nursery, so his keyworker is unable to follow any sort of a program with him.
I feel frustrated that all the salt input comes through nursery, which means that he gets intermittent input and they don't see ds in any other state but clinging to me crying.
In the past I have spent hours on the phone trying to find out where ds should be getting his salt from (boundary issues) and who his salt actually is.
I just wondered whether we should be getting more input than this? or if there are other things we should be doing?I feel it is the one area where we seem to be halting, I want to be doing more but am not sure where to start.
Any advice would be welcome!