Ooh lots of questions.
School very much wants to keep her, at no point have they been trying to suggest that the contents of the report would / wouldn't create a suggestion that they'd like her to leave.
We're in a rural area so kids are reasonably hard to come by and definitely no waiting lists. it's not an educational hot house.
She's 9, just. has a reading age of 13 / 14. can talk very well and expresses herself very clearly.
The OT and the school both recommended Ed Psych to rule out that she doesn't have something more over-arching than simply just a problem with her writing.
Despite private handwriting tutor, on top of private school she still has the writing of a Reception aged child.
The OT asked her to write out "the quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog". when writing this out as many times as she could in 3 minutes the speed was actually very good but included errors such as the use of lower and upper case in the wrong places, poor inter word spacing, incorrect use of ascenders and descenders, sequencing difficulties and missing letters within a word.
The reason that the OT recommended the Ed Psych opinion is sought to assess whether there are differences between her verbal and non verbal reasoning that may be contributing to her recording difficulties. I suspect that it was also recommended because I told the OT how worried we are about dc and i think she thought that this might help to see whether there's anything else. even if it just allays our fears.
When she's writing, she can't spell. when she's typing she can. she's very good at memorising her spellings but struggles to spell in actual written work. she has an extremely good memory and certainly remembers events or occasions extremely clearly.
we are struggling with problems with her self esteem and anxiety. She looks at other girls in her class and wants to have the handwriting of child A, the sportiness of child b, the mathematics ability of child C. So wants to be the milliondollar child! It's horrible to see as i'd love her to like herself. no matter how many times we tell her, she honestly believes that everything is all her own fault and we can dissuade her of this opinion.
The OT did a test called the Beery Buktenica Developmental Test of Visual Motor Integration. When she did this test with the OT she didn't suspect any significant difficulties but once she'd scored it, her performance was outside of the normal range for her age.
She reported no concern about sensory processing and muscle tone appears totally normal. she's good at throwing and catching. however she can't skip and can't tie her shoelaces. small buttons are difficult for her and the (in my eyes over the top) pe kit can create some issues. She's slow at getting dressed for PE. This was never cited as an issue in her state junior school but the clothing was less onerous.
A trip to the Ed. Psych wasn't unheard of at her state junior school and i would imagine that they'd have suggested it by now if she'd still been there.
i hope i've answered everything.
thanks for replying.