Please help and inspire me to have yet another go at toilet training. DS is ASD, in mainstream primary, fully statemented, has speech, understanding, but is still in nappies. Has no interest whatsoever in giving these up. I am just debating whether to have another go at it on feb half term, and he and I spend 9 days (inc wkends) in the house, trying to get him to be successful. We have books, social stories, pants, an older brother but DS can't make the next leap. He will wee on the loo, not scared of sitting on the seat, but its the poo problem, and he cannot tell us he needs to 'go'. He will wee when we take him to the loo but can't say independently 'I need a wee', although he could repeat the phrase back to you a thousand times. He usually poos 4 times a day, after meals but he he is so active he will not sit still long enough on the loo and wont try. He is happy to stay sitting in his own poo in his nappy, he will deny he has done it, and would probably stay sitting in it for hrs if we let him.
I need top tips please?? I can't decide if to have a crap feb half term or wait until easter and have a crap easter! What a choice but no one has a magic answer, it's just up to us as parents to do this isn't it?