Head teacher and deputy head cornered me today for an impromptu meeting.
Was right after the twins after school yoga class . ( taken by their teacher , I had to attend with them as Dds help had gone home by then , and there is no one else to stay with dd4.
Dd4 did nothing the teacher asked and spent the time wandering around in circles.
She ignores the teacher on a regular basis.
The deputy head at the meeting starts talking about dd4s progress , that they are very pleased with her and that she's making leaps and bounds ect.
Mainly because we bought an iPad for dd to use in school to do work on.
Before that dd did not really engage in anything except to use the smart board. Now we know she can count and read and spell simple words.
She still cannot be left on her own for any amount of time.
She still needs help to go to the toilet , and cannot reach door handles ect.
She still needs help and encouragement to eat and drink in school ( and at home)
On the basis of her improvements , the school is taking away her 1-2-1 assistant in the afternoons. She will still have her help to settle into the school morning , but after that she's on her own.
Her assistant is being taken to help with another Sn child in the attached nursery .
What can I do to appeal this ? , I think dd4 still needs full time help .
The head teachers parting shot was priceless ..." I don't know what we are going to do about dd4s swimming class as she needs to have someone with her then , I suppose we could ask for someone to fill in ?" .
If we hadn't got her the iPad , the school would not be aware of what dd can do , they sort of decided playing with sand and painting was about her capabilities...now they know she has learned , they are withdrawing her help .
Wtf ? She still has asd / GDd / hyper mobility ect.