1- How long has your child been doing ABA?
2 & a quarter years.
2- How many hours per week at the start?
6 to start with, increasing to a maximum of 21 but average 12-15 a week.
3- How many hours per week towards the end (or now if they are still on it)?
3-6 a week.
4- How is your child's programme set up? (please let me know if it is after school or at home during school hours).
Initially home based with the supervisor advising & training nursery 1:1 but no formal in-nursery programme. For the past year it has all been in the community - museums,library, soft play, parks, shopping, restaurants, clubs, cinema, swimming etc.
5- How has the programme impacted in your family life?
When you have a good tutor & things are going well it is absolutely the greatest thing ever - you see your child learning constantly; you can finally communicate with them, parent them, do 'normal' things. There is something good out of every session & every day/week/month the skills get ticked of the list & that's a fabulous feeling. When there are tutor problems it is awful ... time & money for nothing.
ABA is simple really & when you adopt it as a way of parenting (I do it with all my children automatically now) life is just much easier.
6- If the sessions are during school, is the therapist a volunteer from school or from outside?
n/a
7- How old was your child at the start of the programme?
2.8
8- Did your child have a diagnosis at the start of the programme?
nope
9- Please describe briefly your child's difficulties before they started on the programme (with or without a diagnosis).
severe speech delay, severe receptive language delay, massive compliance issues, phobias, anxiety, no self care skills, toileting problems, food issues, in his own world to the extent that he ignored everything & everyone unless the interaction was entirely on his terms, no play skills (unless you count throwing toys), demand avoidant to the point that PDA was seriously considered.
10- Please describe briefly what difficulties you have had as a parent (e.g. hours, consistency, finding volunteers, etc) throughout the programme.
Unreliable tutors, bad tutors (confusing instructional control with authority, finding the child irritating, not having the physical fitness required, exaggerating experience), hopeless tutors who just couldn't get it, tutor who got upset by tantrums, tutors who just weren't adaptable ... particularly when working with verbal HF child.
We have one excellent tutor now which is why we do so few hours - at this point the skills he needs are help with advanced language issues & social skills ... any old tutor won't do when you get to that level & I honestly believe that quality is far more important than quantity.
Cost is obviously a huge concern.
11- Please describe briefly how soon after the treatment started you started to notice improvements and where your child is at now.
It wasn't overnight with us - we had a very long pairing period & a long time to get instructional control (inexperienced tutors -getting in someone with masses of experience makes a huge difference) it was a good three months before ds really trusted the tutors, but in the six months after that he made several years worth of developmental gains. He is now a just a delight in every way & he finds delight in most things too :)
Early gains were compliance related, reduction in anxiety, motor imitation & reception instructions - then the words & sentences came :) Our programme has always been play based & NET (again more difficult for inexperienced tutors).
12- Would you recommend ABA?
Undoubtedly BUT do not underestimate the frustration & misery caused by less than ideal tutors - don't be tempted to settle because there is limited availability. I HE ds & do all his academics with ABA techniques (I'm pretty much the only person he'll do DTT type stuff with ;) ) ... it becomes just a part of your life after a while.
I don't like the cure claims particularly, nor having being indistinguishable as a goal - ds' paed agrees that he would not get an ASD diagnosis if he presented now BUT he still has issues - language is still delayed, big toileting problems, dyspraxia (which has become more apparent with age), restricted diet primarily.