DS is 2 (3 end of feb), he has SLD, other developmental delays and behavioural problems.
DD1 has ASD and attends (a long with DD2) a fab school MS with an SNs IR unit, they also have a MS nursery with a separate IR unit. The children in the IR unit have alsorts of SN some quite significant and they will go on to a SNs schools, places there are allocated via the LEA SN panel. Not all the children have a statement they are basically placed there to see what type of educational setting and support is needed for them.
DSs name has been down for this nursery since he was 18mths old and he has a place there for a normal MS place in April. This was all obviously prior to me suspecting DS had any SNs. We are seeing DD1s consultant in January regarding DS and he has also been referred to the combined clinic at a CDC (child development centre).
Last week we had a home visit with a teacher from the early years inclusion team, they have offered DS an early nursery place initially for just one day a week, but its not at our school nursery its at a childrens centre. The teacher basically said the DSs isnt bad enough (this was said after spending just 15mins with him
) to get a place at the nursery IR and it was much easier for her to get funding put in place at the childrens centre nursery.
The plan (if i agree) would be for DS to start there in January and they would basically assess what support he needs and hopefully start him at the school nursery in September.
Now i know nothing of how this other nursery is ran, its in a really run down area (not that that bothers me) it hasnt been ofsted inspected since 2006 but there was a complaint made against it this summer and it was investigated by ofsted. They were given notice to improve in a few area's including how meds were given out
and improving how they ran the key worker system.
The commute there would be a PITA, the girls school is 4 miles from home (so an 8 mile round trip) the childrens centre is 2 miles in the opposite direction!!.
The more ive thought about this over the weekend, the more i feel that they just want to do what easier for them in terms of paper work, and not whats right for DS. Surely it makes no sense to move him around? i cant see how this would do him any good. I feel like a right idiot because i just sat there and nodded my head and said id call and let her know once i had spoken to DH. I wish id said there and then that i didnt think it would work!!.
I dont really know what to do? i so want DS to go to the school nursery, they are very SN orientated, plus i know most of the staff and trust them. Should i apply for a statement for DS now? despite the fact that he hasnt yet been seen/assessed by a pead (just a very short appointment with a SALT who referred him to the DCD) he also hasnt spent any time away from me (other than with DH, we have no family that help us out) in any sort of formal setting other then at play groups, which are a night mare
his behaviour is awful and he is often violent with the other children
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Sorry this has turned into yet ANOTHER huge post, thanks for reading
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