My dd4 has a multi diagnosis ...gdd and asd with hyper mobility , and growth disorder.
The gdd is ithe one I was most worried about ...the paedi told us she will never catch up with her peers (or twin brother) .She was late to hit every milestone and didn't attempt to walk until she was 2 ...She behaves like a much younger child . ..just potty trained a few months ago (she is 6) .
She has had genetic tests done and they all came back clear. Which is a puzzle as the geneticist was convinced there is something they would find.
She had bone scan and even her bones are delayed ...they look like a younger child's bones. Even during the pg , dd didn't have a normal growth pattern, she was smaller , less developed than her twin.
The autism is a separate issue , but we don't really know where one condition ends and another begins. Should get reassessed next year and have a better idea then.
However , she is at mainstream school with 1:1 ,and is doing well. She can't write with a pencil for long but does her work on computer or her iPad. Teacher have been shocked that she can do simple maths and is beginning to spell small words ( cat , mum, dog ) . She can write her own name .
Not bad for a child who we were told was doubtful if she'd ever talk
What we did was bombard dd with visual images all the time , flashcards , pecs , signaling ect . Anything she showed the slightest intrest in we used to get her attention with . Music , was a big thing for her.
Also gave her high calorie ,nutrient rich foods as much as possible , and additional vitamins and omega oil. ( eye-q one) . Is it just a coincidence she started talking after she been taking it for a couple of weeks ?
Sand pit , and play dough and water were also played with ... Often we had to show her how to play with the toys , hand over hand mostly to begin with , then she sort of found her own way around them. Now she plays with dolls houses and baby dolls and does role-play ... (she still prefers noisy and messy toys)
Think the key is to give your child lots of positive attention .
Also make sure you get time away to recharge your batteries too , if your exhausted things will seem worse than they really are .
Lastly whatever you do ...do not google . Goggling disorder / conditions only brings up the severe cases , it will have you worried sick unnessessarily .